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  Chat Room Lingo:
How to Speak in Cyberspace
Marla A. Hoyos, RN, BSN and Trudy Reilly
 
  With the advent of Internet chat rooms, the term “bilingual” takes on a whole new meaning. If you’ve ever entered a chat room, you already know that seasoned “chatters” speak a language of their own. But, don’t let their “chat speak” dissuade you from joining in on the conversation. Getting with the lingo isn’t that hard. And you don’t have to be an expert typist to join in, either. Here are some tips to help you get started.

Who, Me?

Before you enter a chat room, choose a nickname to use; never give your real name, phone number, or any other identifying information online – you never know who may be monitoring the room! People are not always who they say they are, either, so keep safety in mind when chatting.

There can be many different conversations going on concurrently within the same chat room. As the sender of the comment, your screen name or nickname will automatically appear; however, be sure to begin your comments or questions with the screen name of the person you are addressing. For example, "icunurse, where r u fm?"

Abrevi8

Whenever possible, use abbreviations or shorthand when chatting. Instead of typing, “where are you from,” type, “where r u fm?” And instead of asking people where they’re from, whether they’re male or female, or how old they are, you can just type, “stats?” or “A/S/L,” which stands for age/sex/location. An appropriate answer, for example, would be “F/RN/34/FL,” meaning female/registered nurse/age 34/residing in Florida. See sidebar for other useful abbreviations you may see in use or choose to use.

Express Yourself Electronically

Hang out in a chat room for any length of time and you’re sure to notice some unexplained typographical characters. Chances are they’re not typos, but “chat smileys,” otherwise known as “emoticons.” They’re used to show emotion, attitude, tone, and humor. If you want to send an electronic smile, type a colon followed by a dash and a right parentheses; it'll look like this: :-). That’s called a basic smile. There are hundreds of smiley variations, too many to include in this article, but see the sidebar for a few you may find useful.

ALL CAPITALS ARE USED TO GET SOMEONE’S ATTENTION; THEY’RE ALSO USED TO INDICATE YELLING! Unless you’re really angry, use capital letters sparingly.

Chatting is a wonderful way to network, make new friends, or just have plain old cyber fun. Just remember, be courteous and safe. Hope to see you in a chat room!

Chat Room Abbreviations

AFK - away from keyboard
AKA - also known as
BAK - back at keyboard
BBIAB - be back in a bit
BBL - be back later
BRB - be right back (in case you need to run to the bathroom, or check on the kids but don’t want to log off)
BTW - by the way
CUL8R - see you later
F2F - face to face
FWIW - for what it’s worth
GMTA - great minds think alike
IMO - in my opinion
IOW - in other words
IRL - in real life
L8R - later
LOL - laughing out loud (unlike a phone conversation, people in a chat room don’t know when you’re laughing about something unless you tell them!)
M/F - Male or female?
MOTD - message of the day
NRN - no reply necessary
OIC - Oh, I see
PMFJI - pardon me for jumping in
POV - point of view
ROTFL - rolling on the floor laughing
TIA - thanks in advance
TKS - thank you
TTFN - ta-ta for now
TTYL - talk to you later
unPC - not politically correct
WB - welcome back
WTG - way to go
Smiley Variations
:-/ = skeptical smiley
:-! = foot in the mouth smiley
:-e = disappointed smiley
:-s = what you say makes no sense smiley
: D = laughing smiley
: * = kissing smiley
; ) = winking smiley
: X = lips are sealed smiley
{} = smiley hug
:' ( = crying smiley

Editor’s Note: Ready to chat? Visit the Nursing Spectrum chat room at www.nursingspectrum.com. You can access the chat room of our website through the Nurse Community section. Watch for our special hosted live chats!


Marla A. Hoyos, RN, BSN, is a freelance writer who lives in Miami. Trudy Reilly is freelance editor in Florida.

   
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